To Freeze or Not... - GothAlternativeLife

To Freeze or Not...

Let's begin this section by stating what the freeze is.

 

The Freeze - when you stare at someone blankly, usually after they have stated something, that causes a reaction that is emotional, physical, and mental, that was triggered by a past traumatic event.

 

You worked on your trauma.  You are not afraid of your trauma.  You are just at a loss for words. Suddenly.

 

Now this different from staring at someone due to shock.  Like when you meet that hot person you have been lusting over in real life.  Very different.

 

When that freeze happens, you seem to have lost your voice as well.  But yet, in your head you have what seems to be thousands of reactions to the situation.  And nothing comes out of your mouth.

 

Stopping the freeze with clothing helps.  You know you are covered when what you are wearing states the obvious, states what you want to say to them.  Without having to actually open your mouth. 

 

This leaves you room to:

 

Walk or sashay out of the situation.

 

Just keep staring at them until they read your clothing and get a clue.

 

Either way, you win.

 

I got you covered.

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